The Punishment Book

Over on "My Bottom Smarts" Bonnie asks the questions:

1. Is it possible to be submissive and equal simultaneously?
2. Does the fact that you submit to spanking negatively impact your standing in your relationship?
3. Do you or your partner view you as the lesser member of the relationship, or are you equal in all things other than spanking?

Bonnie's answers are great -- I wasn't sure how much I had to add.  However, the issue of equality and inequality in discipline and punishment relationships comes up quite a bit so I thought maybe I could put a bit of a PB twist on the questions, so to speak.